Four days to find
the coherence you
have lost.
Reconnect the business, your team and the purpose
A retreat for leadership teams who know something has to change - and haven't been able to make it happen from inside
Leadership Reset Retreat
Duration: 4 days
Location: Andalusia, Spain
Group size: Up to 4 people
Investment: £15,000 all inclusive
Available: Sep – Jul (not August)
You already know what needs to change
The market has shifted. Technology is doing things that used to require the kind of expertise your business was built on. Your people are feeling it. Your clients are starting to ask different questions. And somewhere in your leadership team, the conversation keeps circling the same points without landing anywhere new.
The problem is not that you lack information. You have information. You've had the strategy sessions and the away days and the consultants with their frameworks. You know what needs to happen.
What's stopping you is something else entirely.
The definition of madness is doing the same thing you have always done and expecting a different result. The problem is, when the thing you have always done is what made you successful, letting go of it feels like letting go of yourself.
Why change feels like a threat
When a business faces real disruption, most leadership teams respond by doubling down on what they know. Not because they are foolish. Because what they know is not just a strateg, it is part of who they are. The expertise, the reputation, the way of doing things that took years to build.
To change direction feels like admitting that what you built was wrong. It isn't. But the mind and the ego don't always know the difference, and when they're under pressure they protect what they know at the expense of what is needed next.
This is why most change initiatives stall. Not in the strategy. In the room. In the dynamic between the people who need to lead the change but cannot quite agree, or cannot quite bring themselves to be the ones who let go first.
No amount of additional strategy will fix a leadership team that is at war with itself, or with the future, or with the parts of itself it hasn't yet looked at. A new approach is needed
The forces that built the universe also built you.
That is where coherence begins.
What this retreat does
This is not a strategy session held somewhere nice. It is four days of work that goes upstream of strategy, to the place where the real decisions are made, which is inside the people who have to make them.
Working with elemental archetypes: fire, air, water, earth, we map the natural energy and character of each person in your team. Not as a personality test to be filed away, but as a living map of how each of you actually operates under pressure: where you are strong, where you default, where you clash and why.
Then we work with that. With creative practices drawn from the Japanese philosophy of Boro and Kintsugi, the idea that what is broken can be made more beautiful in the repair We surface what has been going unsaid. We find where the friction is actually coming from. And we begin to build a different way of working together that is grounded in who each person actually is, rather than who the business currently needs them to be. We find the true purpose which unites you all and will take the business forward.
You do not need more knowledge. You need to know how to use what you already know, and feel, in a radically different landscape.
Why Andalusia does what a boardroom cannot
Busy lives leave very little room for genuine new thinking. The mind needs space before it can change. Big skies and expansive vistas do something to people that a meeting room simply cannot, they shift your perspective before you have said a single word.
Almost everything happens outside. In the warmth of the Spanish sun, in the landscape, in the kind of unhurried conversation that only becomes possible when the diary is empty and the phone is put away. The simplicity of the days, good food, open air, time to think, creates the conditions for the kind of clarity that has not been possible inside the pressure of normal working life.
Distance from the office is not incidental. It is part of the work. You cannot see the picture when you are inside the frame.
What shifts. And what you take back.
The dynamic between you.
Power struggles give way to understanding. You stop pulling against each other and start leading from complementary strengths.
How decisions get made
Clearer, faster, less fraught. When people understand their own instincts they trust them more, and they stop second-guessing everyone else's.
The energy in the room
No more boom and bust driven by whoever has the dominant energy that day. A more even, sustainable rhythm that the rest of the business can feel.
The conversation with your people
Leaders who understand themselves communicate differently. Clearer on direction. More honest about why. More capable of holding others through uncertainty.
Your relationship to change itself
The resistance loosens. Not because the future becomes less daunting, but because you are less attached to a version of yourself that cannot survive it.
The 30-day plan
The retreat does not end when you leave Andalusia. Within three days of your return, you receive a bespoke plan built around everything that emerged during the four days together.
It covers energy balance across the team, how to present a new vision to your people, what needs to change and in what order, and how to hold the momentum through the weeks that follow when the pull of old habits is strongest.
This is the bridge between the insight and the organisation. Most retreats give you clarity and send you home. This one gives you clarity and a plan for what to do with it.
The Opening and The Integration
The retreat does not begin when you land and it does not end when you leave.
Before the work starts, you will receive The Opening, a small, curated collection of items chosen for your team and the elements at play within it. Not a welcome pack. A signal. Something that tells you this is already different from anything you have done before.
When the four days are over, The Integration is waiting. A carefully chosen set of objects: elemental, tactile, practical. Designed to anchor what shifted in Andalusia into the reality you return to. Things to use, to return to, to keep on the desk or in the hand on a difficult morning.
Both are included. Both are intentional. The contents are chosen for each group, not assembled from a list.
“My whole way of interacting with life has shifted. It feels like a weight has been lifted. What was once a real chore is now part of life’s rich tapestry. I find it easier to explain what is in my head whilst linking it to how I feel about it — in my heart and my gut. You would never have caught me talking about intuition before this.”
“We had to look for new ideas. Our boardroom conversations were going nowhere. We were like a dog chasing its tail. This was the first thing that actually broke the pattern.”
This is not for everyone
This retreat works for leadership teams who are genuinely ready to look at themselves, not just their strategy. Who suspect that the real problem is not out there in the market but in here, in the room, in the dynamic between the people at the top.
If you are looking for a motivational few days that leaves everything intact, this is not the right fit. If you are willing to surface what has been unsaid and do something different with it, it is.
Up to four people. Small by design, because the work requires it.
Find out if this is right for you and your team
A short conversation before you commit. We will talk about where your team is, what has already been tried, and whether this is the right next step. No obligation. No sales pitch. Email or call.
What is included
Four days of facilitated work
All accommodation
All meals
Non-alcoholic drinks throughout
Airport transfers for all participants
Elemental profiling for each person
The Opening and The IntegrationCreative practice materials
30-day bespoke plan (post retreat)
The only thing to arrange is your flight.
£15,000
All inclusive for up to four people.
Quotes available for teams of other sizes
What the days actually feel like
There is no agenda slide. No conference table. No one presenting at anyone else.
Days begin with breakfast together relishing the space and stillness, unhurried. Then a walk. Not a structured debrief or a facilitated discussion, just movement and conversation and the particular quality of thinking that comes when you are not sitting down. Some of the most important things said during the four days will be said on those walks.
The mornings hold one-to-one sessions, time with Helen that is yours alone, to go where a group conversation cannot. These are not coaching sessions in the conventional sense. They go further and they go faster, because the setting and the work already done creates a different quality of honesty.
Afternoons are for the group. Creative work, elemental practice, the conversations that need space and structure to happen properly. Then time that is genuinely yours - to sit with what has emerged, to write, to be still, or simply to rest in a way that a normal working day never allows.
Evenings are easy. Good food, good conversation, no agenda. The work continues in the way that work always continues when something real has shifted — not in a session, but in the space between people who are starting to see each other differently.
By the end of the four days, most people find it hard to remember exactly when the change happened. That is how it is supposed to be.
Big changes happen best when we allow nature to be our coach and simplify everything
Questions people ask
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Because an away day works on the surface and this goes underneath it. Most away days change the scenery without changing anything about how the people in the room relate to themselves or to each other. You come back with a list of actions and the same underlying dynamic, which quietly dismantles the list within a few weeks. This retreat works at the level where the dynamic actually lives. It is four days, not one. It is Andalusia, not a hotel near the M25. And it is designed to produce a different quality of change, not resolutions, but shifts in how people understand themselves and each other that do not simply evaporate when the diary fills back up.
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Not the kind that requires crystals or a particular belief system. Energy here means the way each person naturally operates, their instincts under pressure, the pace they work at, the way they take in information and make decisions, what drains them and what restores them. Every leadership team has a dominant energy, usually the founder's and everything else organises around it, often at the expense of people whose natural strengths are different. When that imbalance goes unaddressed it shows up as conflict, stagnation, poor decisions and good people quietly disengaging. We map it, name it and work with it. The language is elemental because it is simple, universal and, unlike personality frameworks, it connects people to something they already instinctively understand.
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Probably more so than you think. The people who get the most from this work are often the ones who arrive most sceptical, because they have spent years being extremely good at rational analysis and have quietly noticed that rational analysis alone has stopped being enough. The creative practices we use are not about artistic ability. They are about accessing a different kind of intelligence,the kind that knows things before you can articulate them, that holds the answer to problems your spreadsheet cannot solve. You do not need to enjoy it. You just need to do it. Most accountants leave surprised at what came up.
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No. The location is not a backdrop, it is part of the work. The distance from your normal environment, the scale of the landscape, the warmth, the pace of life in rural Andalusia. These things do something to people that cannot be replicated in a conference room two junctions from the office. You need to be far enough away that the office cannot follow you. Surrey is not far enough. Your office, nice as it may be, does not have the right qualities for this work.
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The depth of what happens here requires physical presence: shared meals, shared landscape, the non-verbal things that happen between people in the same space that a screen simply cannot carry. If you are not ready to commit to four days in person do you really want the change?
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Flights are the one thing you arrange yourselves, it gives you control over timing and your preferred airline. Everything from the moment you land is taken care of: transfers, accommodation, all meals, all materials. There are good connections to Almería and Málaga from most UK airports, and the journey from either is straightforward. From the US choose Malaga as your destination. Helen will send you everything you need to know once you book.
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Then this is not the right time and it is better to know that before you book. The retreat works for people who are genuinely ready, not people who have been sent, or who feel they ought to, or who are hoping to be talked out of the changes they know are coming. If part of you is asking this question seriously, it is worth sitting with it. The willingness does not have to be wholehearted. But it has to be real.
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Andalusia does have both. The snakes are shy and want nothing to do with you. The spiders are mostly decorative. In years of working and living here, nothing requiring medical attention has occurred. Sensible footwear for the walks is recommended, less because of wildlife and more because the terrain is uneven and beautiful and you will want to look at it rather than where you are putting your feet.
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This is the question beneath most of the others, and it is worth answering honestly. You cannot make anyone change. What you can do is change the conditions. When a leadership team shifts - genuinely, not performatively - the people around them feel it. The dynamic in the room changes. The conversations that were stuck begin to move. People who seemed resistant often turn out to have been waiting for someone at the top to go first. That said: if there is someone in your leadership team who is fundamentally unwilling to engage, it is worth a conversation before you arrive. Four days works best when everyone present has chosen to be there.
Now you’re interested, here’s what to do
Get in touch. Let’s have a short conversation before you commit. We will talk about where your team is, what has already been tried, what you want to achieve and whether this retreat is best suited to you.
We all want good results, so a conversation is important to check that we are the right partner for you in this important transition you are looking for.